Heroes Resources

July 29, 2022

Building Confidence in Children Through Physical Coordination

Quite some time back, I was picking up several kids from school. We had to cross a big monsoon drain to reach my car. My son and daughter crossed through without thinking too much about it. However, the other two kids were left on the ledge calling for help. This got me thinking. What caused the difference in the two responses?
July 26, 2022

How to Fight a Good Fight in your Marriage?

In the early years of my marriage, whenever my thoughts, desires and emotions were not met or attended to by my wife, I had the tendency to ensure that they are met or attended to, even if it meant getting into fights with her.
June 27, 2022

5 Effective Habits to Building Enduring Love

Every married couple who has been married for at least 12 years knows that marriage is hard work.  If you have been married for less than that, fret not! Hang in there!
June 27, 2022

3 Tips to Connect with your Teen

... the once upon a time chatter box becomes a grunt-box. Sounds become their language. Exasperating and frustrating for parents who bemoan the fact that their teenagers do not have conversations with them anymore. And because of that, they’re often in the dark about the well-being and personal lives of their offspring. Sometimes it feels like you’ve got a stranger in the house!
May 30, 2022

Five and Half Ways to Communicate With a Tween Without Killing Gundam

The pre-adolescent years, or what my 9-year-old YouTube-scholar said is called a tween, is a tough spot to be in. This is what I call the between “Don’t talk and ask so much” and “Why aren’t you asking more questions in class?” phases in a tween’s life.
May 30, 2022

Can Two People Really Live Happily Ever After?

It's really endearing when I see an old couple holding hands at the supermarket. However, I've also seen couples that clearly are not happy being together. How does it happen? Did they marry the wrong person?
April 22, 2022

How to Communicate with my Baby: Do They Understand?

I commonly hear this: “I don’t know what to talk to my baby. It’s not like they understand…”
April 22, 2022

More than Meets the ‘I’: Is what is Seen or Unseen More Important?

What is love? What does it look like? Is it when a man walks up on a stage and slaps another man in front of millions to protect the dignity of his wife? Or is it in a fairy-tale ending where two actors, who met on the set of a blockbuster success K-drama series, actually gets married in real life?
March 25, 2022

Fighting for your Marriage Alone

“I’m tired. I don’t have the strength to argue anymore. I think divorce is the best answer for both of us.”